to all you girls out there with guy problems...
you ever have th
e perfect man and you think, this is the most wonderful thing that
could ever happen to me! God is so awesome, nothing can change this! Then it does?! have you ever been in a situation the opposite? where your life is a total mess, the guy is a jerk, your about to break up but then something starts to work out and you fall in love?
or what about the combo? those girls who are seekin
g God and the relationship is working, then a sweet guy comes along that you adore but you love the man of your dreams and you know you can't leave him so you say
no. he learns of this and you both have an argument but things end up fine and your still in love
?
or maybe a reverse combo (still keeping up?) the guy is a jerk and you think what are you going to do
? you break up and he follows you like a helpless puppy who needs his "food" and you give in. that
s when mr. wonderful comes
along and you realize he is the one you truly like-but you dont know what to do. he tells you at one point he liked you and probably still does and your thinking "oh my gosh! i like him to but what do i do w/this other guy?"
girls! i have been in ALL of these sit
uations!!!
guys! I'm sorry if this relates to you to but maybe you will learn a thing or two about us girls ;)
alright ladies its time to gather and think...what does God want?
Genesis talks about woman being formed for man and who the two shall be as one flesh-we are to be the same with God in our spirit.
when we seek God's face and we are being one with Him at our best, that is when: Satan attacks, God is there, and you feel the Holy Spirit guiding you in what to do (absolutely beautiful in all reality).
for you girls that feel you are stuck in a rut: GET OUT!!! leave the jerk! and seek God's face!
if your in a good relationship-talk to the guy, pray with him often, do devotions together (in a public setting), keep all tempt
ation away...need i say more? i
f i do comment and i will ;)
But God is the author and finisher of our lives, that means he cares more about our relationships than any other human on this planet! and what i want you girls to know is:
+its hard
+sex is worth the wait
+God is worth more that you can give him (but try)
+mr. wonderful is worth you time and kindess
+purity is more than thoughts-its also keeping others pure
to all you girls i want you to know that i love you and God does too more than anyone in this world!
to all you guys i want you to know that i love you and God does more as well
this is not bash on guy time-because trust me girls i can bash on you pretty deeply-and you know what for.
but i want you to know that if you are in a relationship and you: are scared, have doubts when someone else comes, want something more, in pain, confused, tired, emotionally drug down-or anything else SEEK GOD!!! pray every day and read his word, spend time in worship-it doesnt matter that you "feel anything" but that you are being OBEDIENT to the one who created YOU!!! He loves you and obedience is more important than many other things :)
if you guys have prayer requests or want to talk to me, leave a comment and ill get back to ya! ;)
-New to his love but in love with Him-
~Bittersweet
